Love! What is love?
For me love is to unconditionally accept someone whether they have too many flaws or not and committing to be there with someone through thick and thin till the end. Love says ” I’ve seen the ugliest parts of you and I’m staying.” To love someone with the same amount of love you give to yourself and never complaining about their flaws or mistakes and still loving them the same way. It is sharing everything with them. Its basically like whats mine is yours and what’s your is mine. How cute. But sometimes this can show one many different shades of love either beautiful or ugly.
We all have experienced our first love as well as second right. But some of us are still remaining to experience the second. Well lucky are them till the time being their heart doesn’t get broken. But who says second love cannot make you feel like first love. Sometimes we even get stuck between a situation like “I don’t want to feel that type of hurt again but I want to feel that type of love again.” I am with you people and I know for many of us its hard to move on but life is all about ups and downs and facing these situations so that the next time you face it you come out being the beautiful new girl after all the pain you went through. It teaches us a lot and somehow I feel maybe its a lesson for you that from next time on wards you be acting much more stronger, braver, patient and calm and understanding who deserves that position in your life and who doesn’t. Be proud of yourself and let this world seek from you.
Talking about your very first love, for you it feels magic in ecstasy.You feel that this is the final destination and you are landing nowhere else. You stay so dedicated to that person. You feel as if you can live your life dedicating your whole years to him. My dear its so damn beautiful for you isn’t it. You don’t care whatever the world says and you are ready to face any obstacle that comes ahead of your relationship willing to fight through any thing that comes along the way. You don’t care the world judges you or not but you decide to stay focused to a single person. You are a beautiful individual lady! For you love has always been synonymous to him right! You don’t want to hide it from anyone,you want to end up with them only. You can tell them you whole life and you find them worth spending your life with. Even if the summer will fade out they will always smell like a sunshine in your life.
But do you think that true love is the first love? I don’t think so.You truly love someone when you give them your 100 percent and receive the same in return what if they aren’t showing up the same love as you are then? Is is okay for you that you gave all you had but you received back nothing in return. You will feel like an emotional fool trapped till their desires are fulfilled and made fun of your love later on. The worst thing they could do to you is to convince you that they love you and then suddenly disappear and not tell you why they left. Because of one person you are scared to love again thinking that the other person will also leave you the same way. You’ve changed and you are more like a guarded person. Your mindset is different now. You are not the same person as you were before because of that one person.
Then after all the heartbreaks you recover hardly and then after all this you come out growing up so beautifully. Then you realize that they were not worth it. Now after learning so much from those worst experiences you’ll make sure that you will now end up with someone who knows all of it and still loves you. Then comes your second love who acts as a healer in your life, creating more beautiful lady than you were before. But its very hard to find a second love because you aren’t yet over the love and respect you had for them. Maybe you are over with them but my dear you will still take time to recover the amount of passion and dedication and all the love and respect you had for them. And its okay you are fighting for yourself not for someone else who never deserved all of it. But then actually your second love brings back that love you had left and gone away telling you that he deserves it more than anyone else and then you decide to finally move on and wallah! you have moved on. You realize this when the love and respect you had for someone, leaving it away you decide to take it back and promise yourself that ” this isn’t worth losing what I have” I hope you will start loving your second love with the same amount of passion and respect as you loved earlier. When every love song you hear now remind you of him instead of them who didn’t dared to love as you did.
Sometimes its takes someone to hurt you in order for you to learn how to truly appreciate someone who makes you understand how life will be more beautiful after such a harsh winter.
Yes, its had never been easy for you to walk away especially after you have invested so much of yourself into making it work. Sad it didn’t work out. I want you to know that by the time you finally decided to leave you are away from them who didn’t thought it was their equal duty. And right now you just need to be on your own.
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So whats your view in Love?
